How to maintain your relationship?

By James E, DelGenio MS, LCPC Maintain your relationship! All couples argue. The key is to have rules for fighting so as not to create resentment over time. Resentment is very destructive to a relationship. Always be civil and respectful. There are no winners when couples lose control. The best case scenario is that you both feel understood even if …

How to nurture your relationship?

James E. DelGenio MS, LCPC Nurture your relationship if you want to make it last. It is a hectic world we live in. Everything seems to take precedence over our relationships. Health issues, kids’ activities, work issues all take precedence. The next thing you know when you look back is that you haven’t had time for just the two of …

Conduct family meetings to address child behavioral issues!

By: James E. DelGenio MS, LCPC Conduct family meetings to improve your relationship!Once upon a time, families ate dinner together. There was no eating in front of the TV; no texting or answering the phone and no internet. This was a time when families discussed what was going on in the household i.e. news, upcoming events, behavior issues and general …

James E. DelGenio LCPC

Psychotherapy for Couples, Families and Individuals. Welcome to the offices of James E. DelGenio LCPC in the Chicago Loop and Westchester, Illinois. 847-733-4300 Ext 638 I am currently a senior therapist with The Family Institute at Northwestern University.  In addition, I have been a practicing Psychotherapist, Author and Consultant throughout the country for over 40 years.  I am experienced in …

How to conduct family meetings to improve your relationship.

Conduct family meetings to manage child behavior too!Once upon a time, families ate dinner together. There was no eating in front of the TV; no texting or answering the phone and no internet. This was a time when families discussed what was going on in the household i.e. news, upcoming events, behavior issues and general discussions. Dinner used to be …

Finances are a frequent cause of conflict in marriages?

James E. DelGenio LCPC Arguments over finances are a common issue in many relationships. Here are some tips that will help avoid conflict over finances. Set Goals and Objectives for your finances. Share detailed financial information regularly. Make financial decisions together. Create a budget. Go over your finances together at least monthly. Who will pay the bills? What is your …

Nurture your emotional connection by conducting family meetings?

James E. DelGenio MS, LCPC Conduct family meetings for good communication and intimacy. Once upon a time, families ate dinner together. There was no eating in front of the TV; no texting or answering the phone and no internet. This was a time when families discussed what was going on in the household i.e. news, upcoming events, behavior issues and …

How to parent effectively after a divorce?

By: James E. DelGenio MS, LCPC Senior Staff Therapist, The Family Institute at Northwestern University Co-parenting after the Divorce 1. Try to parent as a team. Co-parenting can be difficult at best however I have seen some couples who still attend family functions together and make a point of going out to dinner as a family once a month. It …

How can family help one with depression?

By James E. DelGenio MS, LCPC What to do when your spouse has depression? The role of the family in treatment is simply to monitor and report. The family should observe the patient’s behavior and report anything that may be important to the stable functioning and health of the patient. The patient should not be interfered with directly unless, of …